There is a list going around social media that is comprised of just about any place you would go to for a first date, except it’s actually a list of where NOT to take someone on a first date.
Some of the spots included definitely don’t deserve to be on the initial list, so here is a revised Halifax edition:
- Boston pizza
- Saltys
- The Dome
- Toothy Moose
- The Gym
- Church
- A Mooseheads game: opt for a wanderers game
- Family functions
- Long Drives
- Your house
- Fast Food
- Peggys Cove for storm watching
- Woodside beverage room
- Gus’ pub VLT room
- A night out of drinking
- The movies
- Any Karaoke Night
Most of these places are perfectly acceptable as second or third date ideas, just not first. If you’re at a loss as to where you SHOULD take your partner out to get to know them better, there is a list for you too.
What is the purpose of a first date?
You’ve already gotten over the awkward ask. Now it’s time to get down to brass tacks and see if you and the prospective partner are a good match. It’s not a job interview so consider avoiding extremely formal settings like an extravagant dinner, it’s also a time to get to know each other so you are better off avoiding places that are dark or noisy or include heavy drinking.
Here are just a few suggestions:
- Coffee – Always a classic and reasonable first date. True Neutral.
- Point Pleasant Park – Immerse yourself in nature, get in that hike without having to leave the city.
- Dinner (the messier the better) – Go somewhere that isn’t too formal, somewhere you can be comfortable, but also somewhere you can get an upfront experience on whether or not they’re messy or loud while eating.
- Discovery Centre – Avoid museums where you might have to be quiet, attractions like the Discovery Centre are involved and inspire fun.
- Waterfront – Going for a walk is always a safe bet. There’s food and drink but also a bit of exploring to do.
- Fair/exhibition – Ferris Wheel anyone?
- Farmers market – Get your errands done while supporting local businesses! Get to know your partner by observing which tables they’re drawn to.